Why My Co-Workers Call Me "Old"

Last weekend was Halloween, and a couple of my co-workers asked me if I would be going to the Halloween concert downtown. I actually had thought about it, even halfway planned to, earlier in the week. But it was Friday afternoon, and I was tired.

I'd had a rough week. The concert didn’t start until 9:00 p.m.. That meant I would have to stay dressed up for several more hours, instead of taking a hot bath and snuggling into pj’s.

The Land of Indecision

I prefer to have an inward certainty before making a decision---that confident, inner voice assuring me that I simply must choose a particular option, with no nagging doubts. I struggle when I fall into that place of indecisiveness where I feel no strong pull in one direction or the other.

I wish I could say that I have found the solution for those times when I have no clue what choice to make. I haven't. I have learned a few things, however...